So, what is a case of the gimmie-gimmies? Let's define that term...
Gimmie-gimmies- The act of wanting EVERYTHING you see. This is typically seen in children but is under no circumstance limited to the young. Grown women often demonstrate the gimmie- gimmies over shoes and makeup while grown men gimmie-gimmie after mechanical... uh, stuff... and electronics. Gimme is slang for "give me" and the gimmie-gimmies are an extreme version of this slang. synonyms: (okay so they are actually phrases): I want one, Pahhhleeeaasseee, No fair, I want this more than anything in the whole world, you don't love me...the list goes on!
Okay, so with that out of the way, let's get talking about what you can do to keep these terrible tantrums away at the most Magical place on Earth! Let's take a look at some gimmie-gimmie triggers and then well look at strategies for avoiding!
Beware of Gimmie-Gimmies!
Trigger
Gimmie-gimmies usually start out as innocent encounters. A walk through a gift shop will often trigger a tantrum.
Avoidance Strategy
The problem with Disney World is that gift shops are everywhere and are often unavoidable. I can list several rides that end with a walk through a gift shop. The best way to avoid a melt down in an inevitable gift shop is to have a chat with your kids (OR husband. What manly man can resist a pirate sword?) before you hit the parks and a reminder session as you exit a ride with a gift shop exit. The fact is that this is an unavoidable fate; while there are rides that end in actual gift shops, there are a lot that have exits which lead you in the path of carts and kiosks full of goodies. Maybe the patented "Mom's Disney World "Walk"" would be the best strategy here. Meaning: power through those spots on to conquer the next ride!
Trigger
A child who is about to have a case of the gimmie-gimmies will try every ploy to make you feel guilty for not buying said gimmie. If you hear words like "you never give me anything" or "I'll pay you back with my birthday money"...GET OUTTA DODGE! You are on a one way track to wahhhh-wahhhh-wahhh!
Avoidance Strategy
Stop that behavior in its tracks! Don't even let that talk get started. D.I.M. that behavior (Distract, Ignore, Move on!) snuff out that spark and diffuse the situation!
Trigger
Gimmies often happen when tensions are high. Beware they may strike in extreme weather conditions, during low blood sugar moments, and when sleep is needed.
Avoidance Strategy
Avoid gift shops during these moments. Nuff said.
Trigger
Nighttime brings a new array of problems. The ever lovable light toy! With bright flashing led lights, gizmos for spinning, and character cuteness, it is hard to resist. Plus, having cast members and guests waving them here, there, and everywhere doesn't help.
Avoidance Strategy
Okay, so I am going to come off sounding like I am hating on another strategy out there but hear me out... I am NOT a fan of the "bring your own" mentality when it comes to night toys. Let me clarify, I am not a "here, this glow stick is awesome...right?...right?...RIGHT!" kind of girl. I think that part of the fun of Disney at night (if you are awake) is waving around an official light toy. So here is my strategy: buy one and bring it on every trip. Use it until it dies (and there is no hope for a revival) then buy another. I have a super cute Tinkerbell light that I bought to use in my classroom and that thing has not quit working in 4 years! I think it is a worthwhile investment. My suggestion is, talk it over with your kids. You control the situation though- the first sign of light toys you suggest purchasing one (with the stipulation that it will be the only light toy purchased and that it is the child's responsibility to pack it in their bag/the stroller if they want to have it nightly). I loved seeing my nephew's sweet face as it was illuminated by a Lightning McQueen light toy!
Trigger
Seeing another kid walking around with "x, y, z". Kids spot things like this easily (there is something about the point of view from the riders seat of a stroller??? hmmm...)
Avoidance Strategy
Make a plan. In my house, my parents bought us each 1 souvenir. My Mom was in charge of this one and being fair Mama she set a price cap on how much we could each spend. The cool thing was that we were allowed to make that choice at any point in the week. It was made clear (extremely clear) to us all that we could only use that amount of money and that there were be no whining or complaining.
I think it would be really fun to give my kid "money" (DIY here) before the trip or in their trip bag (read up here) that they could "cash in" (if you have older kids keeping up with this coupon might be a possibility but for me, a verbal cash in would work). If you think this won't work for your kids you could do a reverse model. What if, you took a quarter (or dollar or whatever) off the cap price each time your kid complained or gimmie-gimmied? That would be incentive for them to keep the gimmies at bay. I'm just sayin'.
Trigger
Sometimes gimmie-gimmies happen with food and sweets. Some of the most terrible tantrums possible happen when you cross paths with candy. My nephew wanted "Toodles candy" (Mickey Mouse Silhouette suckers). He might be only two but that boy has got a one track mind when it comes to candy. The funniest thing is that it only took seeing another child licking on a sucker to send him over the edge! We tried to D.I.M. (distract, ignore, and move on) but that boy was stuck on that candy. We ended up caving. It was our last night...we were weak! What can you do if you are in a similar situation?
Avoidance Strategy
Pack a snack or candy or else, you are going to be stuck making a choice like us. Luckily suckers are cheap-ish. Maybe you have more will power. Heaven help you if you don't!
Hopefully these tips helped you to think through some scenarios before you are stuck in the middle of a great big case of the gimmie-gimmies. Do you have any tricks or tips that work with your own children? Share them in the comment section! I would love to hear and add to my "one day I'm going to need this!" file.
Love you all!!!!!


















